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Well hubby and i have one of the best relationships i think ive ever seen and its always been that way. yeah we argue like everyone else i mean thats healthy but the last few months we've been going through one of the worst patches we've ever had.
A week or two ago we got into such a bad arguement that we were totally yelling at each other, that has never ever happened since hubby refuses to stoop to my level and shout, in fact ive never heard him shout, so it totally shocked me.
It used to be that we argued then a few hours later we were fine, but lately it last for hours or even days its crazy. Its been worked out a little bit since i figured hes stressed since he hates his job, but its still strained, since i feel like i cant do anything for him and he wont talk to me.
argh it drives me insane because i have nowhere that i can go to just cool off or have a bitch since i dont (still) have ne friends. ah well thats my little vent

Oh Frankie - well you do still have us - even if you are at work a lot now ((hugs)).
I reckon its the moon - we have all been arguing heaps around here too :)
Have you heard the moon is a lot closer to the earth at the moment?
Sorry to hear you are having a bad time - its so awful to go to a job you don't enjoy every day :(
Hope it gets better for you Frank xx

oooh that explains the faster moving days!! more gravitational pull, and more moon pull the greater the emotions for sure! on FB me and others are like "didnt the day go faster???"

All the best Frankie, can be really hard when that sort of thing happens... the other thing that can effect it is when its coming up to ones birthdays (or just past, but around that time) and how long have you guys been together? when you are coming up to a 8 or 9 year anniversary as well.. (9 / 18 / 27 )

Its such trying times in NZ, hence us going to Oz!! all the best for you guys and hope it settles soon...